Admonish your friends in private, praise them in public.
在私底下要忠告你的朋友,在公开场合又表扬你的朋友。
Parents would be greatly surprised and deeply touched if they realized how much belief their children usually have in their character and infallibility,
那么家长会大为吃惊和深受感动的,如果家长意识到孩子们通常是多么相信家长的品行和绝对正确,